Greetings!
As we move through the holiday season, I’ve found myself reflecting on a simple idea that has stayed with me for many months — an idea that continues to shape the way I look at everyday life. I call it the “Have To vs. Get To” perspective.
So much of what fills our days can feel like a list of obligations. We often tell ourselves we have to go to work, we have to take care of our families, and we have to show up for those who count on us. But when we pause and look more closely, many of the things we say we have to do are actually things we are blessed to get to do.
- We get to go to work because we have the ability to work.
- We get to put meals on the table because we can provide for the people we love.
- We get to care for children, spouses, and aging parents because we still have the opportunity to be present in their lives.
This perspective becomes even more meaningful as we enter a season in which many in our community are remembering loved ones who are no longer here. Some families will feel the absence of someone they once hugged, cooked for, called, or visited. For those of us who still get to do these things, may we approach this time of year with a heart full of gratitude.
- Give the hug.
- Make the call.
- Visit the neighbor.
- Serve the meal.
- Not because you have to — but because you get to.
Life gives each of us the same unavoidable appointment someday, and none of us knows when it will arrive. What we can choose is how we live the days we’re given. Will we be remembered as people worn down by a list of obligations — or as people who recognized that each day, each relationship, and each act of kindness was a privilege?
As Christmas approaches, I’m reminded of the profound gift of a Savior whose life and sacrifice made eternal hope possible. For me personally, that is something for which I am deeply thankful.
As you move through this holiday season, I encourage you to take a quiet moment and name one thing — just one — that you are truly thankful for from the bottom of your heart. Share it with someone. Let it lift your spirit and theirs.
As for me, I am thankful for this community. I am grateful for the privilege of serving you, for the opportunity to face challenges with a dedicated team, for the blessing of family and friends, for the freedoms we enjoy, and for each new day I get to greet.
My hope is that this season brings you peace, gratitude, and moments of joy that remind you of just how much you “get to” experience.
Wishing you and your family a blessed and meaningful holiday season.
— Frank L. Beaman, CEO
Faith Community Health System